How to Enjoy Paradise When You Have Babies: Barbados with Littles

DSC_0028We recently vacationed on the beautiful island of Barbados – a place known for the bluest waters, the friendly people, and their rum industry. One of the best parts of our vacation was that we were able to take our daughters along with us.
When I was researching the island, there was a lot of info for honeymooners or couples, but not a ton of advice for children, especially young ones like ours (under three). So here are some reasons why Barbados is one of the best places to vacation with children.

  1. Friendly locals – the Bajan locals were amazingly accepting of tourists. We had so many comments and friendly gestures from locals and other tourists alike. Maggie made friends everywhere, but played the most with a local girl on the beach who was with her father. Maggie hung out with them for most of the morning; enjoying running in and out of the waves with the slightly older girl. The father was very helpful as he would stand by the girls in the water and spent time conversing with us. We didn’t meet anyone who left us with a bad impression!

2. Low crime rate – there may be different opinions on this, but have the perspective that there is no habitable place in the world with zero crime. Wherever you go, be smart and alert. The biggest issue we had was peddlers approaching us, but my sister-in-law said it was so mild compared to Jamaica. The sellers are pretty polite and will take a kind “no” very well, as far as we saw. One day we were exploring a new remote beach area and were approached by police to make sure we were safe and to give us advice about staying in safe areas. I’m sure if you go looking for danger, it’s there. The general rule is to follow the same safety guidelines we have here in America.

3. Many kid-friendly activities – even though the island is thought of as a paradise for lovers, I found it quite easy to bring the girls along on whatever activity we had planned. We did bring our own car seats and rented a car. That simplified our adventures and allowed us the flexibility of driving right to the hotel if someone was  crabby. We took the girls on a catamaran cruise for five hours and had a blast! The cruise lines are outfitted with toddler life jackets, but we brought an infant one from home. We cruised with El Tigre and had an absolute blast. The crew was so considerate and fun; the director of the cruise hung out with Maggie for a while, gave us ALL of the towels to make a bed for Juliet, and made us feel like family. Maggie got to swim in the ocean while we snorkled for a bit, so we say she swam with sea turtles even though they were hiding at the bottom. Overall, we loved everything we did with the girls and are glad that they got to experience it with us.

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As with everything in life, there is a learning curve and this trip definitely taught us a couple things.

Don’t bother with a stroller through security. We found out quickly that it is way easier to put both kids in carriers so we could be as hands-fee as possible. Maggie escaping from the stroller and throwing everything on the ground while trying to get through security was not fun. Honestly, if we did it again, we would not bring the stroller and probably bring a utility wagon that would work well in the sand. There aren’t many sidewalks in Barbados and even where there are, I would prefer my kids close to me.

Prepare to have your kids nap on the go. Our kids napped all places – the car, the beach, a boat…I hate wasting vacation time inside a dark hotel room waiting for my kids to wake up, so our kids were forced to nap wherever they dropped.  Bring their blanket or lovey wherever you go and they will be so tired from the water and sun, they will sleep well. Believe me, it’s worth it. They’ll get back to their regular nap schedule when you get home.

Relax. Things aren’t going to go perfectly. Kids are going to have meltdowns. Just do your best and don’t expect too much of your kids. We had dinner in the hotel restaurant one night with our friends and Maggie was screaming and trying to run away, so I took her for a short walk and distracted her. There’s only so much a toddler can handle. Bring a bag of small toys or drawing tools to occupy them during waiting periods.

Pack as little as possible. We packed four of us into two carry-ons and a backpack. We spent $10 on laundry one time at the hotel and it worked pretty well. You could also just wash your clothes in the sink. It’s hot and you’re going to be in the water most of the days anyways, so you won’t need a lot of clothes. It’s worth it to not have to lug around a ton of bags to and from the airport.

DO YOUR RESEARCH. As you should do before you travel anywhere; Barbados has some rules that aren’t common. One is that one must wear a cover-up while out in public (no walking the streets in a bikini) and another is no camouflage (I don’t know why, Ii just know it’s on a big sign in the airport). Things that may not be in the front of your mind as your thinking about vacation, but you should always be aware and respectful of the culture you’re visiting.

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That’s all I have to say about beautiful Barbados! I hope I get to visit again soon.

 

 

 

February 23: Little Darlings

As you probably have heard by now, we have some change to our weather lately. My sister in Portland has some beautiful snow that shut down the city and we have had temps in the mid 50’s and flooding. I’ll take the early spring any day! It renews my spirit. We have been very on the go this week and it feels like I’ve been putting away laundry everyday, anyone else feel like everything is just piling up? I surely need some time away from the house. Although I can only imagine the laundry pileup when we get back…

Maggie: Potty training is going so well! We transitioned from the floor seat to a toilet topper. She has taken more initiative and has been very consistent as long as she doesn’t have pants on. That’s our next step! I obviously chose to potty train at the perfect time…hopefully we don’t fall backwards over our trip.

She now sings the entire song Twinkle Twinkle Little Star – she knows most of the words, but she makes up the ones she doesn’t and I love it. She started saying “uh oh…oh no!” in the cutest way recently and it’s become a joke. She actually starts laughing about it, so it may be her first joke?

She has been very cuddly and loving to me lately. I keep looking back at her baby pictures and it breaks my heart how quickly she has grown. This is a precious time and I’m determined to soak in every bit of the details. I like to write them down (like in this blog), so that I forever remember how she fake cries with her face scrunched up or how she sings in a deep voice for the doctor part in 5 Little Monkeys. I just love how wild and lovely she is right now.

One last tidbit I don’t want to forget: she constantly plays with her dollhouse people and has names for them all. She has a mama, a daddy, and Baby Jesus. Who is actually Princess Aurora. Kids are just so funny.

Juliet: This champ has popped two teeth in the last two weeks. She is having trouble with sleeping as a result and also with transitioning from a swaddle. But we survive! She is very confident now at sitting up and has just started to play with toys alongside Maggie. It is SO cute!!! All I dreamed of coming true in front of me. I cannot wait for the interactive play! She is a total mama’s girl and I’m not touched out yet. She loves to be strapped on and hang out wherever I am. She loves music and has the sweetest laugh. She had her first late night giggle fit yesterday…she couldn’t stop laughing!

 

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Weekly Updates: The Beginning

I originally started this blog to keep my far away family up to date on things happening in our life, so to accomplish that and to keep me on a writing schedule, I’m going to challenge myself to write a weekly update.

These will include things we are doing, milestones and activities for the girls, and things we are into at the moment. If you have questions or suggestions, leave them in the comments and I’ll address them.

February 16-

  1. Juliet’s first Valentine’s Day! Of course this has to top my list. I gave her a photo shoot just like I did Maggie two years ago. She just began sitting up on her own, so this is her first sitting up session as well! 

  2. Maggie’s officially potty training! We aren’t home enough for the famous three-day method, so we are just making it up as we go. She is about 75% trained at home (as long as she is naked, haha!) She is so proud of herself when she goes and says “Maggie did it!” 20180130_100408
  3. I made some delicious almond flour pancakes for Valentine’s Day. Here’s the recipe (I just used some sugar since I didn’t have Stevia and I added some banana). Even Ryan liked them!
  4. Our big family vacation is coming up in a week and a half! I’m busy making packing lists and figuring out how to pack as minimal as possible. Airplane travel tips with two kiddos would be much appreciated. I will be sure to make notes of the good ideas to report back here to help others.

 

Photo Dump:

 

 

That’s it for this week!

Portland Trip Pt. 1

About a month ago, we visited my sister and brother in law in Portland, OR. We went for 8 days and made use of all of our precious minutes there.
We got to do so much fun stuff and the weather was unusually warm and sunny for the area, so it was very pleasant.

We did have Maggie along, as we always do, because I believe traveling with kids is one of the best gifts to give them. My sister hadn’t seen Maggie since she was four months old, so it was also a bonding experience. Every time I see my family members loving on my daughter, my heart feels like it’s going to burst from happiness.

Anyways, here is a little bit about our trip, what we did, where we went, and what I’d do differently. I split the info into two posts, so the next post will focus on activities to do with a toddler and where we ate.

Places we went: 

  • Cannon Beach
    • Rented recumbent bikes at low tide from Family FUNCycles – they were wonderfully accommodating and we had a FANTASTIC experience with these bikes. A trailer was an extra like $5, I think, but well worth it because Maggie had a great time too.
    • It was really windy and cold and even though we were warned, not at all like any beach day I’ve ever had before. It was extremely foggy and made for a great view.
    • Ate at the Pelican Brewery – everyone else enjoyed flights of local brews.

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  • Waterfall Tour
    • Drive down the Historic Columbia River Highway starting at the Vista House
    • A great FREE activity (besides gas)
    • Go over toll bride to WA side if you have time
    • We did a bit of exploring (all Ryan’s idea) and ended up in the mountains with incredible views and high blood pressure.

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  • Mt. Hood & Trillium Lake
    • My sister called an audible from our plans and we drove to Mt. Hood on the clearest day of our visit. The view was just amazing and the weather was perfect.
    • We went at about 10am on a Saturday and the park area was pretty empty still. We were able to claim a picnic table with probably the best view in the place. By the time we left (around 1pm), there were tons of people around and it would’ve been more difficult to find a good spot.
    • They don’t open the road to the lake until Memorial Day, so we had to hike about 2 miles, but it was so worth it.

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  • Council Crest
    • A little park high on a hill with a great view of the city and mountains.
    • It was always busy when we were there so it must be a popular spot! I did see a hiking path, but we didn’t explore it
    • A quaint space to hang out near my sister’s place with area for play and picnics

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  • YoYo Yogi
    • My sister and I went on a date for an intimate prenatal yoga session (we ended up being the only ones at class on the holiday weekend).
    • They had an awesome deal where new members get a free class, so I got to enjoy some me time for nothing!

 

  • Brewcades (Ground Kontrol)
    • It’s really strange to be in a city that caters to the young generation.
    • Bear and my brother in law explored a brewcade one night with unlimited play on vintage arcade games for a $5 cover fee.

 

We stayed downtown at the Hotel DeLuxe which ended up being within walking distance of my sister’s apartment. We liked to pretend that we actually lived that close for the week. It was so sweet to see them so often during out trip. We loved being able to just run over for breakfast or dinner.

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We also were able to nab a high quality used double stroller off Craigslist and fly it home for free, so we had lots of success on the trip!

 

 

 

Stay tuned for another post on Portland with kids activities!

 

 

Thanks to my sister and brother in law for taking pictures and also sharing their camera so I didn’t have to pack mine. Be sure to check out their pictures of adventures in the PNW on houseoffigs.co 

Encouragement on Mothers’ Day

This is for all the mamas out there. Mamas of all kinds…the ones who are just surviving, the ones who feel more like a feeding trough than a human being, the ones who haven’t slept through the night in years, the ones who reheat their coffee five times, the ones who hope no one notices that she hasn’t showered in a week. This is also for the mamas who are longing to hold a baby. The ones who have grieved, prayed, and even lost hope. This is for the mamas who are loving a baby that doesn’t share their last name, the ones who are raising someone else’s baby, the ones whose love goes deeper than blood. This is for the mamas who are raising someone else’s child, knowing full well that the child will never stay with her. The ones who are giving a temporary home but a forever love. This is also for the mamas who already raised their own children and are now raising their grandchildren. The ones who are even more tired and worn out than us young moms ever could imagine, but still chasing little ones.

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You are loved. You are honored. You are important. Your love is eternal and your care leaves an impression on all you meet.

You are a teacher, a provider, a chef, a personal shopper, a housemaid, a secretary, a chauffeur, a contractor, a nurse, and a counselor (among many other roles).

You are in the most demanding job in the world with the least preparation. You are amazing and have filled your role with grace.

This Mother’s Day, be encouraged. Know that you are respected and loved. Reflect on your past year and be open to what struggles and blessings the next year will bring.

 

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A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.”  Psalm 31:10-31